Not because it is immoral, but because their hearts minds and souls are so full of love that the thought never enters into their mind. The other reasons, which follow, are trite in comparison. Is it because he is a “two timing so-and-so who should rot in hell”? Those few are cursed with true mental disorders, or are evil (a hard bar to reach).
It is not easy to hear that your husband would not have strayed if your marriage was better.
But if you pretend things at home were fine until he strayed you are fooling yourself. If they were, and he thought so too, he would cherish you and never do anything to hurt you.
Instead of getting swallowed up by the magnitude of his betrayal, let’s make it My ONLY desire is to help you get your marriage back, and we are very good at that.
We have helped countless women do so; ones who were told it was impossible by others.
When handled right, the men come back to their senses. The “what about me” mentality is a worse marriage killer than cheating!
This article is not for you if where you want to start, and end, is with condemnation of your husband. “Above all your getting, get understanding”It is not your fault that your husband broke moral codes. Yet, no one should be too surprised by certain individuals have to their environment. And our counselors, who I personally train and hire to answer questions, are not allowed to tell anyone what to do, either.I read all the outraged comments from onlookers who are astonished that 33 million people would sign up to an extra-marital dating site and cheat on their partners.Around seven years ago, I discovered Illicit Encounters after I read about it in a magazine.Usually all the power to heal things is in the hands of the wife. Half our sales are to couples, and both take their course. Use this link to look at what all comes with the courses.If you think about what I write here, and I mean deeply, your eyes will open.Your marriage is not meant to be shared with your children, but provide the love, examples training and security they need. You may write in to us if you would like to understand better, or if you have any other questions about your marriage. The causes always are due to the couple not having enough practical marriage aptitude. In cases of boredom or escape, both of the couple want to take the courses, because they both see the possibilities. The first is lighter to read, the other one is our textbook for certifying our counselors. Some like to ease into the courses; reading a book, and utilizing our free help.