What I do know, is that we are all marketing ourselves to some extent... I would--not you specifically, you're about the same age as my parents, and I'm looking for someone a few years younger than me, and certainly not 19 years older--though I much prefer pre/non-ops.
and with that, basic marketing would dictate "selling to a buying crowd". One of my top crushes (I have 4 top crushes whom I like equally) is a post-op trans woman (she's also a celebrity though, and a professional athlete (Thai kickboxer), so she's probably out of my league..she's sweet at least).
The only restriction that apply is uploading of nude pictures.
Even we do not check all profiles if such profile is reported or found we will delete those pictures immediately.
That way you know the guy who is contacting you is totally open to dating you. Another deal-breaker."Well kudos to you for having the balls to post that on your profile. I'm looking for the same thing in a relationship with a guy that most women want. I'm honest about my background -- I've gone through a lot to get where I am today. I think "lookatme" did...lol) has to be a good thing, right?
You really can't be contacting men unless you are 100 percent sure they would be ok with your situation. Finding love is hard enough, but it must be extra hard in your situation."Would you date a post-op transsexual woman? I think I have a lot to offer but I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time on Plenty of Fish. An absolute necessity for any relationship, including just friendship.... That would indicate that you now have no external male parts, but on a lifetime of hormone supplements, that at your age, many menopausal women are on as well.....
Its brutal and I can only imagine what some may say about your lifestyle.
My view is, if that is what makes you happy, then be proud of who you are.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...Are there guys here who would even consider dating someone like me? First off, a disclaimer that I cannot begin to understand the psychology behind, but I am going with the metaphor that one was born as a hermaphrodite and decided to make a choice of which parts to keep. Nevertheless, only you can decide if you are wasting your time.I can have compassion for you, but I will never be able to fully understand your life; so with honesty, empathy is completely out of my reach.... There are plenty of folks that have been on this site, or off and on this site for a long time and still come to shore empty handed for the long term.... I remember watching a show called Becker, with Ted Dansforth, whereas his best male friend from childhood was unknowingly a post-op transsexual that he was attracted to.The demographics of this site, as well as many others like it, will not remotely be as favorable as site specific. However, I'm ideally looking for something a little different than most women are looking for, but I'd be open to a monogamous relationship with the right woman, regardless of if she's cisgendered or transgendered.