On one level, I totally agreed with her, but there was something about her opinions that just didn’t quite square with my experiences. She didn’t mention her real name, and I wouldn’t reveal it anyway.
Physically, I am the typical good-looking Italian brunette girl with a curvy but toned body and a thin waist, which here looks quite exotic and appealing, I guess, amongst all these blondes.
So I am not wanting for attention, but the problem is that the courtship skills of the average Australian guy in his 30s are really superficial, compared to what Italian guys are willing to do to get into a woman’s pants! Some Australian, New Zealand, or American guys who live here are shamelessly capable of picking me up for a first date wearing flip-flops, a tank top, and beach shorts—and they look like a real ass when I arrive all dolled up, and then just leave them there like a just after one drink. I have come to the conclusion that it is not all their fault, though.
I think that the average Australian girl will give them what they want very quickly, if they are interested in the guy in question.
Therefore, as the guys don’t really have to practice how to “win” a woman, they are really clueless.
Instead, in Australia if you don’t give them sex within three dates, they might even stop texting you.
They are lucky that they are tall and muscular, unlike Italian expats here.
This is one thing Italian men should learn: get to the gym!
But actually, I do have a LOOONG term Italian partner. But we are libertines, and we like to have fun with others occasionally. I guess when searching a “sex friend” I can overlook the poor pick-up style. But she assumes that it’s because we’re lazy, which is incorrect.
I have also met Italian guys here who have asked me if I could give them some clues as to how to “play” with Australian women, to which I asked, “What do you mean?
” Then one of these Italian guys said, “Well, it is really no fun if the girl hands you her undies after the first few conversations.” I have even tried to take matters into my own hands and try to “drive” the game from my side.
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