It took years of work to get me to the point where I’m now. If I get an outbreak I know how to treat it and help the outbreak heal as fast as possible.
According to the World Health Organisation, two out of three people under the age of 50 are infected. This sounds genuinely scary, but what’s it like if you know you have herpes but you still want to date and find love? The 35-year-old manages a blog called Life With Herpes and is also the spokesperson for MPWH (Meet People With Herpes), the world’s biggest online dating community for people living with the diagnosis. The herpes virus is the most common sexually transmitted infection in the world.Someone like Alexandra is very public about the fact that she lives with an incurable STI.She works every day to break down stigma and give people with herpes a place where they can access clear and easy to understand information about the condition. But does the stigma around sexually transmitted diseases still affect her?If you are ready to take your relationship to the next level then yes, you absolutely need to tell them.’ The key rule for herpes sufferers seems to be behaving responsibly when it comes to making potential sexual partners aware.
Alexandra goes to on to explain that for her, it all depended on what her intention was with the date.But keep in mind, I never slept with anyone without disclosing that I had herpes.’ Can you still have a satisfying sex life when living with genital herpes?Charities and herpes associations agree that it’s completely possible to have fun, loving and romantic bedroom frolics with your partner.‘Fast forward to when we began dating, I initiated the conversation about having herpes and asked him if he remembered. He loves me and that’s all that matters.’ When is the best time to let a potential partner know that you’re carrying the herpes virus?Alexandra says that it depends on who you are and what you want from the relationship.Or sometimes people just want to lay it all out on the table to weed out prospects.