No matter the outcome, this attitude allows you to walk away with a gain you can keep. Do not become excessively flattering toward a woman on a first date; 4.
The goal of dating is to find someone who wants what you want, and wants that with you.That’s only possible by starting with the ‘real you.’ Make up your mind, in advance, to have fun. Every time you meet someone new, you’re gaining vital information as to what you want (and don’t want) in a partner. Do not go to a movie theater or a music concert on a first date; save those types of events for a second, third, or fourth date; 5.If the venue is more important to her than spending time with you, she’s not a keeper.Awww, how cute, but with that line, you may have just sentenced yourself to the dreaded “friend zone”.Ideally, you should engage in at least one lengthy (thirty minutes minimum) phone conversation with a woman prior to your first formal ‘date’ with her; 2.
Never invite a woman on a formal ‘date’ if all you are looking to do is engage in one or more episodes of short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex with her.
Follow their steps, and your next first date will go great! Posturing some “better” version of whom you’d like to present is misleading to your date and sets the wrong tone for future interactions.
It’s a game that can’t be maintained and guarantees dissatisfaction for both parties.
First dates are often boring, awkward, unexciting, and even torturous to many men.
Guys build up the occasion in their mind for days or weeks beforehand, only to be severely let down after the fact.
Women want to be with a guy who has a sense of certainty in what he does and in what choices he makes.