We tweaked Marnie's Ok Cupid profile, painting a picture which highlighted her sense of humor, great ethics, and some of her interests.You'll notice that negativity has no place in a dating profile.
By changing this statement to, "the perfect man for me is smart, fun and handsome," the perception completely changes.
This subtle change portrays the image of a woman who is confident, in control and knows what she wants. It is a huge mistake to create a massive list of turnoffs, deal-breakers and qualities that you are looking for in a partner.
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Your online profile is what will help people decide whether to contact you or not.
Stick to language that shows high levels of confidence whenever possible. While you may think this is a productive way to ward off unwanted suitors, all it does is make men think that you are a negative person and possibly jaded by one too many bad dates.
The unwanted suitors are going to arrive at your inbox no matter what you do.
You have the most beautiful brown eyes I ever seen. " You log off, wondering if online dating was ever a good idea to begin with.
And a message that seals the deal on the trifecta of feeling hopeless: "Wussup babe.
Keep your profile positive and you soon will be attracting all sorts of potential partners.
Marnie, a youthful looking 51 year old nurse, who in person was actually quite full of spunky personality and compassion, was baffled about why she wasn't getting good results from her online dating profile, and about why the men she met online were not the kind of guys she had been hoping to meet.
After looking at her dating profile and photos, it was clear that Marnie, who had been working as an RN supervisor for many years, had what we call an could bring to the table.