in the romanticized, classic sense of the word, when they start acting like the classic 1950’s uptight jealous wife, giving you a slap in the face for even seeing you walking (or riding motorbike with) another girl.
Either that or an emotion fueled shouting battle, turning up some much-needed intensity in relationships.
The frustration lies in trying to shake them out of their state and acknowledging that you can see right through them.
In modern regions such as North America, Europe, or Singapore, women have learned to put up “shields” over their true personalities as they grow to be an adult.When talking to a western chick, a guy has to cut through shield after shield just to get at the root of a girl’s true feminine side before being able to take control. Vietnamese girls will attempt to lie or hide feelings you will always know where you stand with her, giving you an upper hand.If you’re not, then Vietnam Cupid is probably your best bet.It’s the site I always use when I fly in, I setup dates with around 6-7 girls a few weeks before hand, and end up sleeping with at least half. Do keep in min that some girls will flake (perhaps 10-20%), but that’s normal.Relationship game undergoes a lot of testing here, as are a man’s true commitment to his girl.
Now, I have had various experiences as have my friends, but there are two ways to react when a girl “tests” you. In the more communistic north, which is where I spent 9 months of my time, getting laid is *hard*.This gives you the idea that they want to get romantic with you very soon just after a couple hours of meeting up. It is revealed that they very desperately just want to be your friend.Now obviously, that’s only how it appears to us, and what they really want is for you to ask them to be your girl friend (they always want it to be formal).A battle ground, that’s what dating Vietnamese girl is like.And if you are not here for the sexy Vietnamese girls, you will be very soon as they soon take over your senses and focus onto them.But for a player like myself this is an absolutely no no proposal.